When my kids were little I took them to Legoland. We climbed into a ride and the safety bar came down.
But it wouldn't close over my stomach. I was too fat.
The attendant was mortified, but I pleaded with my eyes for him to try again. I WAS going on the ride with my kids, size 20 or not. The young man put all his weight onto the bar and with a huge effort managed to close it over my tummy.